YOUR RELATIONSHIP RESET

A new way to heal conflict, rebuild trust, and feel

truly connected again—without years of therapy

Imagine This Instead

Talking without it turning into a fight

Feeling understood instead of criticized

Knowing how to respond to your partner’s triggers

Rebuilding emotional and physical closeness

Trusting that your relationship can actually heal

Navigate life as a strong, united team.

Step into your full potential and aliveness.

Not someday. Starting now!

Why I Created This Program

Hi, I’m Ralph Butcher.

I’ve spent 30 years as a couples therapist and over 36 years inside a real marriage—living the same challenges my clients face. I’ve seen good people love each other and still feel painfully alone.

What changed everything in my work was Imago Relationship Therapy—a proven approach that reveals the unconscious patterns beneath conflict and teaches couples how to turn those moments into connection.

I created Your Relationship Reset so couples could access this powerful process at home—without the cost, scheduling, or intimidation of traditional therapy.

This isn’t another communication course.
It’s a new way of seeing each other.

What Makes This Different

Many relationship therapists focus on:

Who’s right

What to stop doing

How to argue “better”

As an Imago therapist, I focus on:

Why you trigger each other

The hidden needs underneath conflict

How to create safety first

Connection before correction


You don’t just learn techniques—you learn how to be with each other differently.

Common Questions

What if my partner is hesitant?

The lessons are gentle, practical, and non-threatening. Many resistant partners relax once they realize this isn’t about blame.

Do we need experience with Imago?

No. I guide you step by step.

What if we’ve tried therapy before?

This approach is often what was missing—understanding the pattern beneath the problem.

How long before we feel a difference?

Many couples notice shifts within the first few lessons.

All This From the Comfort of Your Own Home
Anytime--Anywhere

Testimonials

"We were stuck in a cycle of the same arguments and felt so disconnected. 'Your Relationship Reset' gave us the tools to hear each other for the first time in years. The lessons on repair were a game-changer. It feels like we finally have a blueprint to navigate disagreements and grow stronger using the process."

Jessica & Mark
Together 8 years

"I was skeptical about another 'relationship course,' but micro-sized video format made it so manageable. We could watch a lesson in 6 minutes and talk about it afterward without feeling overwhelmed. It helped us turn everyday moments into opportunities for connection. Our relationship was good before, but now it feels deeper."

Sarah & Jeff
Together 5 years

"As someone who went through this course on my own, I gained so much clarity about my own needs and patterns in relationships. It helped me understand what emotional safety truly means and gave me the confidence to build healthier connections in the future. It’s not just for couples; it’s for anyone wanting to understand love better."

Emily
Single

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Samantha
CEO / Founder

"The video on 'Balancing Independence and Interdependence' spoke directly to us. We were struggling to find a way to be partners without losing ourselves. This course gave us a new language to talk about our needs and create a life that honors both of us. It was liberating."

David & Alec
Together 3 Years

"After the kids came, we felt more like roommates than partners. This course was the spark we needed to find each other again. The practical exercises helped us rebuild our connection and reminded us why we fell in love in the first place. We are more patient and understanding with each other now."

Maria & Ben
Together 12 years

"What I loved most was the focus on imperfection. The course made us feel normal for having struggles and gave us hope that we could grow through them. It shifted our perspective from trying to be a 'perfect couple' to being a team that can handle the messy parts together. We feel more connected and resilient than ever."

Sue & Jordan
Together 6 years

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Samantha
CEO / Founder

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Inside Your Relationship Reset

15 Micro-Lessons (6–10 minutes each)

Designed for busy couples who need real tools, not homework overload.

You’ll learn how to:

Break the pursue/withdraw cycle

Listen without defensiveness

Speak so your partner can actually hear you

Rebuild affection and intimacy


Understand the roots of your triggers

Repair after conflict every time

Create emotional safety again

Fall back in love

No blame. No shaming. No sides.
Just a clear path back to each other.

Show Me The Content

These 15 micro-lessons are packed with insights to deepen your connection without overwhelming you. Enhance your love story and create lasting transformation!

  • The Secret Language of Needs - How we Learn to Connect
    Uncover the hidden language of emotional needs and how it shapes connection. You'll learn how to identify and express your needs in a way that fosters understanding and intimacy, setting the stage for deeper communication and a stronger bond.
  • Pain as a Pathway to Connection - When Hurt Becomes Hope
    Explore how moments of pain and conflict can become opportunities for deeper connection. You'll learn to reframe hurt as a signal of unmet needs, turning challenges into pathways for healing, understanding, and renewed hope in your relationship.
  • The Power of Attunement - Why Perfect Connection Is Impossible (And That's Beautiful)
    Discover the beauty of imperfection in relationships. You'll learn how attunement—being present and responsive to your partner's needs—can create a strong emotional bond, even when perfection isn't possible. Embrace the idea that connection is a journey, not a destination, and find joy in the process of growing together.
  • Adjusting to an Imperfect World - Building Resilience Through Life's Natural Delays
    Learn how to navigate the inevitable delays and imperfections of life with grace and resilience. Discover how embracing patience and adaptability can strengthen your bond, helping you grow together through challenges and uncertainties.
  • The Balance of Giving and Receiving - When Too Much or Too Little Shapes Our Hearts
    Learn how to find the delicate balance between giving and receiving in your relationship. Discover how to support each other in ways that feel fulfilling and sustainable for both partners.
  • The Brain's Protective Defenses - When Love Meets Our Survival System
    Understand how your brain's natural defense mechanisms can impact your relationship. Learn to recognize and navigate these responses to create a safer, more connected partnership.
  • Defenses in Adult Relationships - Creating Safety for Love to Flourish
    Explore how defense mechanisms formed in childhood show up in adult relationships. Gain tools to create emotional safety and foster deeper intimacy with your partner.
  • Balancing Independence and Interdependence - The Dance of Togetherness and Autonomy
    Discover how to balance your need for independence with the desire for closeness. Learn how to create a relationship that honors both individuality and togetherness.
  • Navigating Support Mismatches - Learning Each Other's Love Languages
    Learn how to identify and navigate mismatches in the ways you and your partner give and receive support. Discover how understanding love languages can deepen your connection.
  • Recognizing Unique Love Expressions - Seeing Your Partner's Heart Language
    Uncover the unique ways your partner expresses love and appreciation. Learn to honor and celebrate these differences to strengthen your bond.
  • Embracing Imperfections in Love - Finding Strength in Your Beautiful Mess
    Embrace the imperfections in your relationship as opportunities for growth. Learn how to find strength and connection in the messy, beautiful reality of love.
  • Repairing and Reconnecting - The Art of Finding Each Other Again
    Master the art of repair after moments of disconnection. Learn practical tools to rebuild trust and reconnect with your partner after conflict.
  • Nurturing Emotional Safety - Creating the Foundation for Lasting Intimacy
    Discover how to create a safe emotional space where vulnerability and intimacy can thrive. Build a foundation of trust that strengthens your relationship.
  • Sustaining Intimacy Through Rituals - Creating Your Love Story Together
    Learn how to create meaningful rituals and shared moments that sustain intimacy over time. Build a love story that grows stronger with each chapter.
  • Navigating Challenges and Transitions - Growing Stronger Together Through Life's Changes
    Explore how to navigate life's challenges and transitions as a team. Learn how to grow stronger together, embracing change as an opportunity for deeper connection.
Perfect For Couples Who:

Feel stuck but still care deeply

Want change without endless therapy

Are tired of repeating the same arguments

Struggle with communication or intimacy

Want to protect their family and future



You don’t need a new partner. You need a new way to reach the one you already love.

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Today just $297 with coupon code RESET100 at checkout

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